Saturday, 6 June 2026

Families

Sometimes we can look around society and think that everything regarding families are falling apart. This isn't a modern problem. 

Genesis 4 - Cain murdered his brother, Abel (murder)

Genesis 16 - Sarai giving Abraham, her husband, Hagar (who bore him Ishmael) (adultery)

Genesis 21 - Ishmael was scoffing at his half brother Isaac so Sarah got Abraham to cast them out (jealousy, bullying)

Genesis 27 - Rebecca encouraging her younger son Jacob to deceive Isaac so that he could have the birth-right instead of Esau (deception)

Genesis 29 - Laban getting Jacob to work for him for 7 years for Rachel, but gave him Leah instead so Jacob had to work for another 7 years to marry Rachel (deception)

Genesis 37 - Joseph sold by his brothers (trafficking)

Those are only in the first book of the Bible (Genesis - which means 'Beginnings') and only a few examples. 

We also see throughout Scripture the brokenness of families: 

Judges 16 - Samson was besotted with a woman who eventually had him tortured and killed (lust)

1 Samuel 1 - Elkanah had 2 wives, one of which was bullied by the other because she was childless (bullying)

1 Samuel 4 - Eli, the priest, had 2 wayward sons, who ended up getting killed in battle and the shock killed Eli (not correcting his sons)

2 Samuel 15 - Absalom turned against his father King David (dishonour, treachery)

On and on it goes. If you're having issues in your family, for whatever reason - it's not a modern day occurrence - it's been happening for millennia. 

The Lord blesses those who are faithful to Him and although it can hurt when you're being abused*, deceitfully used, lied to, stolen from etc, we need to look to the Lord and remember the words of Joseph: 

Genesis 50:20a But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good,

Romans 12: 19, 21 Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

*in the case of abuse - please seek help, it is unacceptable that anybody should suffer from being abused whichever type it is. 


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